4:28 AM
Sunday, January 25, 2009
More wars.
Sometimes they pity her, but these days it's been pretty bad. Maybe they are not understanding her more. They know that she's not working and staying at home. But, it was first and foremost her choice. Even when she's not working and staying at home, they don't really get to eat at home everyday, get proper cooked meals everyday nor does she really do a lot of housework so sometimes they don't know what she's complaining about.
She calls it stress staying at home everyday. They who go out almost everyday are also stressed too. They have stress from school & work. When they come home, they want to rest. Sometimes they end up doing more work. If she's working then perhaps they can sympathize with her. They try to help around as much as they can. But does she know of her responsibilities at home? Does she know that when she wanted to become a nanny, that it's adding on to her responsibilities?
Cold wars, cold wars. Money, money. Never enough.
Him & her having cold war. Mention money and everything gets tense. They understand where she's coming from. She's not working and yet her money flows out. He's working and keeping quiet about money. And that she has to pay the bills like she has a full time paying job.
Them, them who are stucked in the middle at times. Having to work around the cold war. Not knowing who to support, him or her.
They wish that things could be talked out openly. Then perhaps the matter could be solved.
This is life for them.
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